Adding Zest to the Nest

Adding Zest to the Nest

Thank you all for your kind and gracious words of encouragement to me regarding my last post. I’m still in hibernation mode but wanted to take a moment to ask you a frank and bold question (one that I never imagined I would ask on this blog):

How goes it in the bedroom with your spouse? Could you use a little zest in your nest?

I know. Bold and to the point. I don’t intend on offering you any pointers in this regard, but I know a woman who can. Her name is Heidi, aka “stonefox” to most of us. A few months ago, Heidi began to explore the topic of sexual satisfaction in a Christ-centered marriage. That exploration is being developed into a new series to be offered on her blog beginning in June. The title of the series is “under the covers.” You can read more about it by clicking on these links to the following posts:

The Sexual Woman (part one)

The Sex Doctor (part two)

In addition, Heidi and her friend Patty are beginning a blog devoted entirely to this issue, offering Godly advice and answers to our questions. You can visit their new site, Adding Zest to your Nest, by clicking here.

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I’ve encouraged Heidi to nurture the growth of this teaching. She’s been a good friend to me, even though an ocean or two separates our worlds. She is wise beyond her years … the kind of wisdom that cannot be learned but only received as a gift from the Giver of infinite wisdom. In addition, she has a rich heart for the ministering of the Gospel in a culture that is often void of desire and understanding.

I encourage you to be a part of this growing teaching. I need it more than anyone, and I’m just bold enough and perhaps just on the other side of crazy enough, to commit my energy and my heart to growing in this area of my marriage.

I certainly need more zest. I’m sure that my husband would agree.

Blessings to you all this week. I love you like crazy and am praying for each one of you as God brings you to mind. As always,

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19 Responses to Adding Zest to the Nest

  1. I trust you are getting some much-needed rest. I read your previous blog, and you already had many encouragers so I didn’t add a comment at that time.

    Thanks for the info on “zest”. God has blessed me with a wonderful partner and that part of our marriage seems good, but I am going to check out the blog as I am always wanting to learn and improve.
    Blessings. Donna

  2. I truly believe that because of the blatant disregard for wholesomeness in the world, the entire topic of sex and satisfaction within the fines of marriage is sometimes lost, worse yet avoided by couples searching for help. We fear speaking about sex because too many of us feel that if a strong voice is given to the physical enjoyment made possible by the Most High then we might very well become heathen-bound traveling on a fast track to hell (sorry…no other word for the place that fits!).

    I’ve been married to my guy for over 30 years. We’ve never been afraid to talk openly about EVERYTHING and it is the very reason I believe so strongly our marriage survived some difficult times (and years). What I wouldn’t have given to have SOMEONE to turn to in our time of need.

    Teach and Preach and Love and Share. Nurturing our physical needs will help us all shake off the illusion that we are the only ones embarrassed by either our lack of knowledge or “technique”.

    I applaud you girlfriend.

    Blessings…Rebecca @A Gathering Place

  3. I’m headed over to check it out. I know my husband would be most appreciative.

    Leah

  4. Hey! It’s quite obvious that I haven’t checked out your blog lately!! Sorry!!! Enjoyed our talk this morning!! I’m looking forward to a road trip!

    Hubby and I have a great relationship, but there’s always room for improvement!! And, this blog could help with topics that we need to cover in our church’s women’s ministry! Thanks for letting us know about some “zestin’ in the nest!!

    Love ya,
    Susan

  5. why, I deeeeclaaaaare, Miss Elaine
    🙂
    isn’t it wonderful when we can approach our topics from Christ’s perspective, knowing He will lead us to His right way honoring marriage and His creation in it!
    thanks for the links 😉

  6. Glad to hear you're still trying to hibernate a little, Elaine. And thanks for the prayers you offer for us, your blogging friends. I've begun a new chapter in life that could use some prayer. Check out my Sunday blog post for the details when you get a chance. (This is the ministry the Lord confirmed for me as I read one of your posts last week!)

    Have a great week!

  7. Elaine, you know you are crazy, brave,…and WONDERFUL. God bless you, friend, as you "press in" to Him.

  8. Hi Elaine. Just checking in with you. I know all about the tiredness……that kind that comes with the lifestyle we share…..PRAYING FOR YOU!!!

  9. Hi Mrs. Elaine:)

    I would love to meet up with you all in June! I think my husband and I shouldn't have any prob meeting ya'll in Pigeon Forge or Gatlinburg. I know of a few restaurants that are good restaurants up there. I'll contact you soon:)

    Since I did the invitro, Luke and I weren't able to "relate" to each other as much in the bedroom, but I think a little bit of abstinence makes the heart grow fonder:) Alot of abstinence, maybe not so much?? interesting post, Mrs. Elaine…:)

    katiegfromtennessee

  11. Great topic for a blog. I am blessed by my husband and I find that the communication we have spills "under the covers too". Looking forward to reading this blog.

  12. That will surely be a hot topic and one widely visited!

    Much needed too—this old girl never turns down good advice! Godly counsel is needed in all areas of our lives—but especially this one!

  13. Thanks for the heads up….Good for them listening to the heart of God!
    This aught to be interesting…joining the journey!

  14. Hey, girl…
    Hope you are catching up on that rest. This is ‘graduation week’ for us, so I’m kicking into high gear for the big day.

    I’m gonna check out those links you posted. There’s been no “zest in the nest” lately…just lack in the sack. Your timing’s perfect with this post!

    Love you,
    Beth

  15. This is God’s gift to us, after all! Thank you for always speaking what he puts on your heart. (even when it takes a lot of courage!)

  16. I'm with you, girl! I'm going to post on this tomorrow too!

    Hope you are feeling better, getting needed rest and down time. As always, let me know how i can pray for you, sister.

  17. thx 4 coming by…
    she was more interested in UNC…she'd love to go there. One of our aunt's lives close to DUKE so they worked it in while they were there seeing her. We're hoping for some inter-state tuition help … there are several colleges offering "no" interstate fees (with certain gpa's)…
    we'll see. I know hubby really wants her to go to a NC school…he's a Wake grad.

  18. I love Heidi too and she is very mature for her years!
    Hope you are enjoying your rest and adding some zest too!

  19. I'm a new follower of your blog…was definately not expecting this post.

    Love your. Audacity. Attitude. Approachability.

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