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Well Spent Livin’

“I turned around to see the voice that was speaking to me. And when I turned I saw seven golden lampstands, and among the lampstands was someone ‘like a son of man,’ dressed in a robe reaching down to his feet and with a golden sash around his chest. His head and hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and his eyes were like blazing fire. His feet were like bronze glowing in a furnace, and his voice was like the sound of rushing waters.” (Rev. 1:12-15).

OK…it’s now official. My older sons are hereby no longer going to the movies with their way too emotional mother…

Ever again.

We have just returned from seeing Prince Caspian, and I, by far, was the most openly expressive participant in the movie theatre.

It really doesn’t matter if you have read the book. I think I did somewhere in my distant past, but quite frankly, I’ve never quite made it past the enchantment of the The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. But this adaptation of C.S. Lewis’ book to the silver screen trumps the Wardrobe. The graphics are incredible, and while I could do without some of the comedic license given to talking mice, I thoroughly engaged with the movie through my emotional and spiritual lenses.

It’s not a new story. Good verses evil, with good winning out in the end. But it was the good ending of this particular story that nearly sent me into audible shouts of hallelujahs and hands raised in praise.

Nearly.

I remembered the two boys next to me and restrained my response by grasping my mouth, while allowing the free fall of tears to wet my shirt. They simply nudged one another (as if they knew it was coming) and handed me a napkin.

In one of the final scenes, the battle reaches its climax on a bridge over rushing waters. Aslan, the Lion, sounds his voice with a deafening roar, forcing all within earshot to take notice. All.

Created beings and created earth.

It was then that my Charlton Heston, Ten Commandments kind of moment arrived. I knew it was coming for I could hear the stir of the waters even as they crescendoed in response to the sound of Aslan’s voice. From the North, and with the fury of a Savior’s beckoning, the water found its way to the battle line. It didn’t come alone, but rather it came with the visual imprint of a face within its engulfing wet, representing the witness of my God’s presence.

I don’t remember much about the rest of the movie. My heart and my thoughts remained suspended in that scene for the final minutes of the film. However, this one scene was enough to catapult Prince Caspian into the category of money well spent. It is a good scene to remember, for with its remembrance comes a rich metaphor of how a life can catapult its way into the category of well-spent.

A well-spent life is a life lived in the truth of who our God is.

A rescuing God. An awe-inspiring Creator who belongs to our battles because a Savior has made a way. A soon and coming King whose voice commands the surrender of all creation.

Not a wimpy God. Not an unconcerned Creator. Not a God who turns away from the cries of his children as they face the toughest battles of their earthly existence. Not a cruel God who limits his love only to the good and to the righteous.

No, my God is a consuming God. He is the finisher of the battle. The final Word that trumps ours. He is the Wind and the Waves. The Fire and the Flood. He is the First and the Last. The Love and the Grace. And at the end of the day, as we stand on the bridge of our climax, all that really matters is that our souls breathe in unison with living, breathing Water who arrives on our scene…at just exactly the right time…to usher us into our next.

He is the One who brings a shout to my heart this day. For all of the other reasons to find some joy, there is none better than Him.

Now…I don’t know about you, but I certainly think a hallelujah is in order. And just in case you haven’t seen the movie…no need to worry. God’s Word is enough to script your heart with a similar response and to catapult your journey into the category of a life well-lived.

“I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True. With justice he judges and makes war. His eyes are like blazing fire, and on his head are many crowns. He has a name written on him that no one knows but he himself. He is dressed in a robe dipped in blood, and his name is the Word of God. The armies of heaven were following him, riding on white horses and dressed in fine linen, white and clean. Out of his mouth comes a sharp sword with which to strike down the nations. He will rule them with an iron scepter. He treads the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God Almighty. On his robe and on his thigh he has the name written:

KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS.” (Revelation 19:11-16).

My sons may never want to go to another movie with me, but as long as they make the final journey with me, we’re good to go.

Give yourself a treat this week. Go see Prince Caspian. Greater still, go and visit our God on the pages of his holy Word. Either way, it is time well spent, and you just might find your hallelujah in the process!

As always,

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19 Years of Nick

19 Years of Nick

 

A First Born…Nicholas Evan

 

Not to be outdone by his mother, my son decided to make his entrance into the world on the heels of my birthday. Nineteen years ago, I experienced…

Life interrupted!

And I have spent the better part of two decades trying to unravel this mystery named Nick. So in the vein of yesterday’s celebration of my 42 years, I want to dedicate this post to my eldest son and to some of the lesser known 19 wonderful legacies that he has scripted and is scripting onto the pages of humanity.

1. Nicholas (meaning “victorious people”) and Evan (meaning “young warrior”). His is a strong name…well fitting for this first born whose strong will was evident from day one.

2. Nicholas is a young man after God’s own heart. Nick accepted Christ when he was six years old and has been walking as his Father’s child ever since.

3. Nicholas has dreams of sitting behind the desk at the ESPN studio. By age three, Nick had mastered the television remote and would crawl downstairs before the rest of the world was awake to get his morning fix of sports’ statistics. (I’m not kidding!).

4. Like his mother, Nicholas bleeds Kentucky Wildcat blue. The lines are strongly divided in our house over the matter. Go UK! Boo Tarheels!

5. Nick is a big brother to three others. Big can sometimes mean annoying, but most days it means…loving, fun, playful, and protective. Colton, Jadon, and Amelia all have strong connections with their brother.

6. Nick is considerate…he holds doors, he says “thank-you” and “yes ma’am”, and he buys flowers for his mother.

7. Nick is conservative in life, but liberal in his expression.

8. Nick is quiet on the outside, deep on the inside.

 

9. Nick has made straight A’s his entire life, rarely cracking a book to do so!

 

10. Nick is singularly focused, but does so through a wide-angle lens.

 

11. Nick has a serious mind, tempered by a wild and wicked sense of humor.

 

12. Nick is handsome and filled with charm that oozes through his dimples. Watch out girls…

 

13. Nick has a business-like approach to life without denying the mysterious.

14. Nick possesses courage, tempered by his convictions.

15. Nick is loyal—a good friend to many…a best friend to a few.

16. Nick has the golden touch. He excels at life.

17. Nick is honest, with a conscience to match.

18. Nick loves his “paps” (i.e. my dad) and his “paps” loves him right back.

19. Did I mention that Nick is strong-willed? Yes…I think I did. He befits his name, and for every ounce of heartache that came to me because of that “will”…it has now produced a man who has consigned his “will” to the will of his Creator. Just as strong as it ever was, sanctified now toward all things sacred.

And one to grow on…

One of Nick’s recent favorite songs is a tune by Charlie Hall entitled “Marvelous Light”. Nick’s been running toward that “light” for 19 years. It’s been my joy and privilege as his mother to run alongside. So Nick…this one’s for you dear one. You are my heart! ~mom

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42 years of my journey

42 years of my journey

April 10th…It’s my birthday, and I’ll indulge if I want to…

42 little known facts about me on my birthday…as seen through the eyes of those who know me best and love me the most.

from mom & dad…

1. Elaine was born April 10, Easter Day. And from that day on, she has exemplified a ‘resurrected life.’

2. When she came home from the hospital, her year-old sister threw a ball into her crib and it bounced off her head. That was an omen of things to come with those two girls.

3. Her first nickname was “Chuckina”, given by Linda Aaron, her kindergarten teacher because she acted like her father, Charles.

4. All her teachers loved to have her in class. They said it was her personality, her generosity, and her passion for even the smallest of things.

5. As a youth, she went to the Wilmore Camp. I had to take two truck loads of furniture and supplies for her needs. It was at camp that she had the first of several conversions.

6. Elaine took piano lessons and it paid off. I still have her Thompson books, and now I am starting to play, beginning with Book I. The first lesson is dated January – 1974. Elaine was 8. Kind of neat…dad playing the same music.

7. The nightly ritual was tucking her in bed, saying our prayers out loud, leaving the night light on, and leaving the door ajar. All of these had to be done in order; it not, they had to be done over.

8. She was always getting into trouble, especially in Band, with her friend Gayle. They drove their director crazy. They both played the sax, each altering between seat 1 and 2, by their devious design.

9. In children’s choir, she gave the impression that she was the director—making sure everyone was lined up properly, much to the chagrin of her parents and the choir director.

10. Her ‘CBS productions’ and her neighborhood dramas, were a sight to behold. Invitations were hand-delivered to the neighbors and props were gathered and set up in the yard or den. Of course, Elaine was the director.

11. She loved the tape recorder and was reluctant to relinquish it.

12. She loved to make up her own dances and entertain us with her singing, dancing and imitations of performers. Her rendition of “Elvira” with a broom as her mike is priceless.

13. One day she came into the house, crying, telling me that the neighbor girls made fun of her, wouldn’t play with her, and that they were mean. I told her to go out there and love them. She said, “Okay.” In about two minutes she was back, crying again and telling me, “Daddy, it won’t work.”

14. Elaine usually had ‘bad hair’ days because she had problem hair. Cowlicks and crowns all over her head. We tried everything, but for years her hair was short and manageable only when given a dose of “Dippity Doo”.

15. One day, in a restaurant, the waitress looked at me and asked, “What does he want to eat?” She’s never quite recovered from her mistaken identity as a boy.

16. As a toddler, Elaine was docile. During morning worship, she slept soundly in a room adjoining the platform and choir loft while anthems soared and her dad preached.

17. She was slow to walk–we finally resorted to a walker when she was 15 months old, and she mastered the fine art in no time. Hard to imagine, when she hasn’t been still since and runs for exercise almost daily.

18. She had a high need for stories to have a happy ending. If the story line did not wrap up all the loose ends, she persisted with the question, “Well, what do you think happened?” until we gave her a probable “rest of the story.” Her need for order and predictability have been both bane and blessing to her, I am sure.

19. As a child she was compassionate to the point of pain when life was unfair to others or they were suffering from illness or heartache. She still practically wears a sign that says, “Tell me your troubles and I’ll cry with you!”

20. At about 6 years old, she packed her suitcase and went to Jennifer’s for a sleepover, but within two hours was brought home in her jammies, unable to handle the trauma of homesickness.

21. She has always been able to strike up a conversation with most anyone, from folks standing in a checkout line to passengers on a plane, to servers in a restaurant—having a natural interest and curiosity which, in her childhood, was often a source of embarrassment to her more reserved family members.

Still awake?

from my kids…

22. Mom likes to sing and dance to Christian music while she’s driving. (N)

23. Mom is passionate. (N)

24. My mom is the only one I know who buys Christmas presents for herself and leaves them wrapped under the tree as a surprise. Like we don’t know where they came from! (C)

25. My mom leaves a broom by her bed so she can hit the ceiling when my brother and me get too loud. She used to climb on the bed and pound. I guess this is easier. (C)

26. My mom…hmmm…she’s perfectly fine for me. (J)

27. My mom likes to watch “Deal or No Deal” with me. (J)

28. My mom is the Queen. I am the princess. (A)

29. My mom loves to hug me. (A)

from my husband…

30. When out to eat, Elaine will use almost anything as a toothpick if no real ones are available.

31. Elaine is cold natured…blanket, socks, and bed slippers year round.

32. Elaine sleeps in a “nest” of five different pillows that she assembles every night.

33. Elaine has a “Beth Moore” closet where she houses her Bible study materials.

34. Elaine has composed several songs for our children, the best being the “Little Green Frog” song.

35. The first story Elaine ever read to me was her “Shed Heart” story.

and finally from me…

36. Baths over showers.

37. Diet Coke over coffee.

38. Chocolate over just about anything.

39. Fall & Winter over Spring & Summer.

40. Writing over reading & talking & watching.

41. People over possessions.

42. God over everything!

And one to grow on…

I have a favorite song that puts voice to the earnest and most sincere plea of my heart on this, my 42nd birthday. A prayer to the Creator and the Sustainer of my life.
Thanks for indulging me!
~elaine
Carrying Our Pretty With Us

Carrying Our Pretty With Us

“But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all surpassing power is from God and not from us. … We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body.” (2 Corinthians 4:7-10).


He slipped back in the house yesterday morning to show me something. His forgetfulness.

Carelessly and without thought, he picked up his “pretty case” instead of his briefcase as he headed out the door for work. We had a good laugh, and then I had him re-enact his folly for my camera. Some pictures are worth the ink. This was one of them, and it got me to thinking.

Thinking about his caddy full of pretty…

Shaving cream. Razors. Mouthwash. Toothpaste. Lotion. Comb. Floss. Deodorant. Matrix Biolage hair gel. Yes, even my husband carries some “product” for his pretty.

Thinking about what he left behind—the one thing that normally accompanies him to the church office…

His Bible.

Somehow in his process of readying himself for the day, he reached for the ordinary to the exclusion of the extraordinary, and quite frankly, he felt exposed. Naked. Something not quite right as he stood at the edge of new day to embark upon the calling that has claimed his life.

A calling that values “heart product” over “pretty product.”

And a heart can never be prettied by creams and combs. It requires a deeper work…a stronger “product.” The cleansing work of the cross.

As believers in Jesus Christ, we have been given a rare privilege. We have been designated as the dwelling place of our Father. How precious is this Treasure. How fragile its frame. God designed us to be exactly so…as dusty earthen vessels, the contents of which contain more pretty than the world can fully absorb at first glance.

He is what makes us pretty. Not our outward attempts at fortifying the frame. He applauds and even celebrates our efforts at presentation, but when the day is over and the “pretty” has run its course, he ponders the condition of the heart that remains. The heart that contains his heart. The heart that will follow us into our tomorrow and into the day after that and into all of our days yet to come.

After awhile, our pretty wears thin and no amount of “product” can cover up the heart that lies beneath. We can try to conceal its pulse, but eventually our fragile clay begins to crumble to reveal the contents within. What pours forth…Who pours forth…is revealed by the light, and we stand as naked. Before God and before man. Exposed.

An untouched photograph that discloses our truth.

And the truth that God values more than our outward “pretty” is the inward product called grace. It is the one boasting allowed our mirrors. The one treasure allowed our fragile frames. The one Gospel allowed our lips. It is the only “heart product” that never wears thin and keeps its beauty long after the lights have dimmed and the world has gone home to find its rest.

Jesus is our “pretty” and Calvary’s accomplishing work is our calling. We are given the privilege of hosting its grace…every day. Within our clay parameters that were not meant for the applause of man, but, instead, meant for the breaking of a revealed radiance and a surpassing power that was never designed for containment. A carried treasure that, sometimes, is forgotten and covered up by our attempts at “pretty.”

I don’t about you, but I think that this has been a picture worthy of some ink…worthy of some words, and worthy of some further pondering as we prepare our hearts for exposure. God, alone, is worthy of a heart’s review. Man’s opinion is always flawed and often fatal. In the end, God’s opinion is always perfect and stands as final. And final sounds perfect to me, so this day I cast my heart before its Maker, and I ask him to make it–to make me–pretty.

Not for man, but for him. And so I pray…

Heal my heart, Lord, and make it pretty for you. Cleanse me from within, so that the radiance of your grace shines forth from the mirror of this face. Forgive my attempts at cover-up, and eliminate my desire for the same. I want to be a true portrait of your Gospel, and so I ask for you to cover me with the truth of Calvary’s gift. Let my beauty be birthed because of the cross. Not as I stand in front of the cross, but a beauty that finds its depth beneath and behind the cleansing blood of your surrender. You gave your Son to death’s embrace to make me pretty. Thank you for allowing such sacred beauty to be house within my clay. Humbly and with holy trembling, I carry my portion. Amen.

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